Am I being EXTREAMLY paranoid?

My boyfriend got off the phone to his mate and I was watching him as he got off I asked him
To text me hello to see if my phone was receiving texts, ( we both have iPhones) and basically he text me saying hello
But it looked liked he wrote a much longer text message… It really really did, thing is there was no sound ( the noise it makes when you text someone) it made a Noise when he text me though, and he has no
Message from any girl since as I have had his phone? Also he never receives texts off girl and he told me to keep hold of his phone if I'm that paranoid? Am I being paranoid?! And I don't want to her " this relationship isn't healthy bla bla" but am I paranoid or is my boyfriend talking to other girls: s

By the sounds of things you are being paranoid, why don't you ask him if he ever texts other girls? Its better to come face to face with him about the problem rather then worry yourself over it. My boyfriend texts other girls but there just friends, its the same if I text or talk to other lads. If you don't let him have female friends then he will do the same back to you when you have male friends.

To be honest, yes you are being paranoid. A little jealousy is a good thing as it shows you have strong feelings for this person but its not healthy to make little things a big deal. Would it really be a huge dealIif he was talking to a girl anyway? He may just have a female friend. You need to trust him or it will just end badly. Hope you get it all sorted.

I think that you are being paranoid. Even if he seemed to send a long text to someone else it could have been to one of his friends - even his Mum. If he has no messages from girls is that a bad thing? He is even happy to let you have his phone so he is clearly very confident that he has nothing to hide. Of course he could be deleting them all but the same thing applies he still says you can have his phone because he isn't expecting any to contact him. It isn't actually cheating to communicate with other girls - if that was the case girls and guys would only ever talk to their partners and no-one else - it would get pretty boring.
I do have to wonder why you feel that he might be texting/talking to other girls - have you heard something or is it just a feeling. If you can't trust him then go for the full paranoia - follow him, check his place to see if he has a second phone, hack his computer, approach him on Facebook using a false account and false photo and see if he tries to hit on you. Trust or Paranoia - you choose whichever you think will make you happy in the long run.