Did I ruin my chances with her? So many mixed signals?

O there's this girl I have liked for a few months now. She started out as a casual acquaintance, but after hooking up with her at a party (we were both somewhat drunk), I began to feel differently. The hookup was not awkward in any way, and we remained on good terms. A few nights ago however, she asked me if i wanted to go to a party with her. Out of the blue ( I had her number but we never really texted before). We went together both sober (since her sport is in season and I'm currently on probation for drinking). She seemed interested most of the night, we held hands grinded/ danced, etc. I then proceeded to lean in and kiss her. After a little while, she pulled me aside, saying that she wasn't drunk enough for this (Could be interpreted as her thinking I was only interested in hooking up), then wanted to walk back. I let her do this, then sent her a text a few hours later apologizing if i made her uncomfortable. She never responded, but then the next couple of days people kept asking me if i had received certain text messages that I definitely hadn't received. I confirmed that there was indeed a problem with my phone dropping IMessages due to the fact that my data plan was used up, and she had an Iphone.

Help! I don't know what to do. My friends seemed to think that she liked me, but isn't the type of girl interested in hooking up, and would prefer a relationship. I would like to ask her out but I don't know where she stands right now, or if she sent a reply to my last text message? Since there's a fair chance that she did send a reply that I didn't get because of my phone should I text her and let her know this?

All answers appreciated

Yes text her and let her know your phone problem. Try to meet up with her and ask her out, she will either say yes (most likely since she seems like she likes you) or no! No biggie. I know it doesn't sound that easy, but if you believe it is, it will be! ~ :) YOLO

hoped this helped you a bit!

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