My iPhone won't connect to iTunes? - 2

So i got a iphone 4 like 2 days ago and i made a password.unfortunately i forgot it and i tried so many times it now says "iPhone is disabled, connect to iTunes". I connected it to itunes with the USB thing but then it comes up with this message it won't connect to iTunes because you need a passcode or something.someone please help?!

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