Should I get my son an IPhone 5S?

My son, who's 14, doesn't have an IPhone of any type, and he's been asking for one for three years already. My wife however, opposes, because she tells me that since he only needs a phone for occasional internet, text, and calling, that an IPhone 5S in that case is a luxury, and is not worth buying. She also says that the money can be spent elsewhere, and that he doesn't appreciate money very much, even though I believe that he deserves one for all these years of keeping his old phone in good condition. So should I get him or not get him one and why? Can anyone give me any advice to deal with my wife too, because she'll oppose and talk about money?

Be a good dad and get your son a phone

Get him an Android. They don't cost as much and are just as good.

I believe you should get him one b/c he seems like he could keep the phone in good condition and that'll he'll appreciate it. Tell your wife that he deserves it for being responsible and that he'll most likely be using the internet/texting Way more than occasionally. Also, tell her to stop acting like she doesn't enjoy a nice luxury every now and then.

If he's had the same phone for 3 years, he's obviously responsible enough to have one. How about just getting him a 5? I suspect there will be a price drop. If he's not a hard core user, a 5 would take care of his needs. I've had one since they came out, and I see no reason to pay the extra for an s model.
Perhaps get insurance on it, and have him do some specific chore to pay for it. My kids are older, and they aren't terribly responsible. I give the younger one allowance, and I deduct the cost of insurance from it.

I had the same problem too only it was my husband who didn't want to purchase the phones. My 14 year old twins were given the latest iPhone (back then) for their 14th birthday. My son doesn't use his enough and my daughter uses hers the standard amount. She only phones and texts when she needs something. She wouldn't sit on it all day, which I appreciate. To be honest, it depends on how badly he wants one. I wouldn't purchase another iPhone again for my children in a heartbeat. I now understand what my husband was talking about and I should of listened to him and it isn't to often that I say that. I enjoy spending our money but now I realize that I could of gotten more for them for their birthday instead of just a phone but I suppose it varies from person to person. All you can do is talk to your wife but I'd suggest you work it out and don't go out and buy one without your spouse part. You could regret it and then the guilt and blame comes back on you. If he has treated his old phone perfectly then, I would consider it. If he wants it so badly or is constantly using his current phone then, why not?

You know what is best for your son,

All the best, Emma.