Am I spoiled or are they wrong?

I had some friends over and when they got into my room they said I was so spoiled… I'm 14 btw

All I have is:
MacBook Pro 13inch
About 60% of my clothes are aeropostale
iPhone 4 (got for free because Verizon had them for free)
32 inch TV
Vera Bradley bag (only 50$… )
I got a Vera Bradley pencil bag for Christmas
For my 8th grade graduation I received $250 to redo my room

I'm a very sweet girl and I'm never mean (maybe a little irritable during that time of the month but that's it)

Our house isn't big and we're middle class. I'm very thankful for everything I have.

Am I spoiled?

Your parents spoil you but you rnt spoiled.

No way lol… Do your friends have like nothing?

I seriously doubt you even know what "middle class" is. But, it doesn't sound like you're *too* spoiled… You're just a braggart that likes to put on airs to pretend you aren't.

A little humble pie would do you a world of good.

As long as you don't go around flaunting what you have and actually appreciate the things you've been given then no. I wouldn't say you are spoiled.

Maybe your friends don't have things like that and when they see your things, they wish they did. But you still have nice things and most likely more than what others have.

Doesn't sound like much but a slow accumulation if items over time and occasions. Now if you received all that in one Christmas then maybe…

THEY ARE WRONG.

Nope! Not at all!

I have a lot of what you have. I have a macbook, some designer bags (Coach, Louis Vuitton), blackberry, etc. I got $1, 000 for Christmas to spend on clothes and makeup too. My family's home is big too, like upper middle class. So the same/similar stuff.

What I've learned is that those who say you're spoiled are JEALOUS. Just plain jealous. I'm like you too, I'm one of the nicest people you'd ever meet, but as soon as people find out I come from a well off family (I never outwardly say it either or brag), people treat me worse. I've had friends say I'm jealous bc they're jealous and pathetic. I believe that it's not useful for those so called friends to call you spoiled bc it doesn't affect you at all! While they're whining, you're out enjoying your things. If they keep saying that, ignore them or politely tell them to stop. If they continue this, tell them "jealousy is not an attractive trait" They'll shut up soon haha

hope this helps and good luck!

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