How to move songs from iPhone to laptop?

I just got a macbook core 2 duo laptop and wanna move all of my songs from my iPhone to my laptop… How do i do this? (i synced it and did a bunch of other stuff and nothing happened)

suggestions are appreciated
but solid answers you know 100% are preferred.

Added (1). To TEX4S: aw dang… Thanks though!

ITunes will try to use your computer as the "home base"

and always try to make the phone have same as laptop, not the other way around.

if you had a PC there are some 3rd party apps that let you drag and drop any of your songs - but I don't know if they exist in the apple world. Apple knows its customers arent too bright - they purposely don't allow any settings or config changes for that very reason.

1. Use a program named (Aiseesoft iPhone Transfer) to transfer your contents from iphone to pc or pc to iphone ( its really easy)

2. If you have jailbroken iphone you can use iFunbox also.(Freeware)

You can use third party software like DiskAid.iTunes will not help.