Is this a Narcissist's revenge tactic?
My father gave me a gift (an iPhone) earlier this year, but for a few personal reasons, I haven't switch my phone to that iPhone yet (I was planning to very shortly).
Recently, though, that family member sent a text stating "Your cousin's husband is coming into town and I told him that he can have the iPhone that you're not using. I need to get it, so let me know how you want me to get it."
My father is an undiagnosed Narcissist. I've cut off contact with him for the past month because he's a toxic parent and continues to do emotional/psychological damage to me every time we meet.
He now wants the gift back! Do narcissists use revenge tactics by asking for gifts back? Should I give it back? Keep in mind that I'm an adult.
You are an adult! No do not give the phone back. Tell him that it is yours and that you will not be passing it on to "cousin"---Cousin needs to have his own phone… AND tell him that if this is not "honored" you will never accept gifts from him. And then make that a "never".
Also, you say: " he's a toxic parent and continues to do emotional/psychological damage to me every time we meet."… Everyone in our lives is there for a reason------yes, your father may be toxic ---however it may be a lesson for you to learn to set boundaries --so that he does not "do emotional/psychological damage"… The other thing is this----you KNOW how he is… Do not give him permission in your mind to "do damage"… In other words----when you --go over and over in your mind about "what he has done" you are only giving more energy to it and perhaps creating an emotional vibration that only attracts him to do the same thing over and over again.
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If he gives you "grief" over the phone tell him that his way of communicating is unhealthy and he needs to get help.
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