Should I just ignore him back?

So I know this guy for a while and we text more than anything else because of our schedule conflicts and busy life. But here is the thing and I'm so confused. Anytime I text him he seems distracted, busy but when I stop texting him ( i have to mention that i'm NOT a desperate type, I text only once) so anyway when I don't bother him for a few days he gets back to me very interested and start a conversation. I never ignored his texts but i feel like anytime he is bored or it's convinint for him he comes back to me?! He is sending mixed signal and I just don't get it.

Now last night, I texted him that if he watches chick flicks. Just a simple honest question! His responds" Hell, no! I hate chick flicks, You shouldn't watch chick flicks because you are not a chick anymore and they are waste of life" and then he suggested me to listen to his favorite musics on spotify instead!

anyway i replied that i don't mind watching them once in a while and changed the subject but he never replied until this morning that he didn't see texts because his iphone was on: do not disturb" mode! I checked facebook and he updated his status as " the more i get to know people the more i enjoy being alone!"… Like WTF?!

Should I ignore his text and not reply or i should just text him "no big deal" to the "excuse" and leave it at that? I don't want to act childish neither desperate. What should i do?

Run! He is a dork!

I think that the best advice I could give you right now is to re-gain your dignity. This means you must dry those tears, wash your face, stand up tall and proud and without crying but with a re-newed confidence tell him you love him but do not want him if he does not want you, and then you wish him well and let him go. Now, this will be the most difficult thing you ever had to do, but you must do it for any possible chance of winning him back, and if he doesn't come back doing this will make it easier for you to let go because you will be left with your dignity and pride in place. Get interested in other things like hobbies, maybe get interested in a self improvement course, spend some time with your girlfriends, go to the mall, read books, or do anything but dwell on feeling sorry for yourself. Most times when someone leaves a relationship it is due to many reasons, but the bottom line is that what they used to see in the other person is not there any more. In other words, what once attracted him to you has faded. You must re-gain that attraction.
Once you let him go and do not call him or ask about him in time he will begin to change his mind about you. He will begin to see you with respect and admiration for your strength. This is a slow process and at times you will feel he is not paying attention to how strong you are, but trust me, he will pay attention. He needs to come to see you as a prize to cherish and win, not as a clingy, crying desperate person. Don't cry, it is not over until it is over. Best of luck to you!

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