Why won't my new Iphone 5 sync to my old Itunes?

I don't have my old Iphone 4s, it was stolen. I got a new Iphone 5 and now I'm trying to sync it to get my music off my old phone. I didn't have Icloud turned on on my old phone and on Itunes, the panel to the left that the apple website keeps saying to go to isn't there. Please help, I have hundreds of dollars worth of music on that phone!

Added (1). I have also downloaded the most recent itunes already

Should download the latest version of itunes

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