Can't find the right digital cookbook

I just want an online/digital(app)/software cookbook with the following:

Essential points:
- works on a mac
- where you can manually add (I don't care about uploading from the web!) unlimited number of recipes
- has a lot of recipe input options in it (like time, cost, meal type, ethnicity, servings, ingredients, difficulty, notes, many categories/sub-categories, tags, etc… )
- where you can search for your recipes with any of the above options (by ingredients, time, keywords, cost, etc… )
- nice layout
- serious (I don't want all my recipes to disappear suddenly or something)

Important but not essential points:
- where your cookbook is private (not public)
- that does not cost too much (and no monthly cost, just at the beginning), free if possible

Optional points:
- that can create grocery lists (organized by aisles) that you can modify as you wish
- that has a meal planner with no date restrictions (i.e. You can even plan 3 months ahead)
- sync with iphone would be cool (for the grocery list)

And don't tell me Paprika or similar: I already searched and they are too focused on recipe-importation and other things I don't need, and I don't want to spend 20€ on something I don't need (I'd rather create word documents for free then! )

Try going through my blog http://recipeforfoodlovers.blogspot.in/