He wants to see me, I told him I had to study this weekend, I think he got mad?
Ok! Bear with me.
I'm a 23 year old nursing student. He is a 25 year old college coach, very shy and introverted.
We have hung out twice, our first time was a night on the town (we danced, we had a great time, it ended in passionate kissing) and our second time was in his apt (passionate kissing again, no sex, he stopped before it got too hot and heavy). At the end of our last date, we discussed seeing each other this weekend. I told him I'd let him know.
He texted me today, asking me what I'm doing tonight. I'm a nursing student, I'm very driven to succeed and do well in my classes, and I have a HUGE test on Monday. I responded that I'm studying.
Him: Am I going to see you at all this weekend?
Me: Yes! We will see each other. I'll make sure of it. Maybe Saturday for a little bit if you're free?
Him: A little bit?
Me: Unless I come over with my book and study stuff, haha. But then I wouldn't really be any fun.
Him: Yeah I wouldn't be able to keep my hands off of you either.
Me: :( What a bummer. Believe me, I'd much rather be with you than study for this test!
My text was sent at 2pm. He read it immediately, started typing (we both have iphones), and stopped. It is now 6pm. Why hasn't he responded? Guys, was my text mean or something? Did I say something wrong? Granted, his team has a game tonight at 7pm, but he just flat out didn't respond. I don't want to keep hounding him with texts. What should I do? How would you feel if you were him?
Added (1). By the way, we have discussed the fact that we both have busy schedules, and that since I'm a nursing student, I won't have much free time. He told me he thought about if I was going to be too busy to see him on our first date. I assured him that I will make time for him. I really like this guy. We have great chemistry and I don't want to ruin this.
Do not reply again. Let him come to you.
Ok, so I'm not a guy - but what guy wouldn't be chuffed over your last message?
I would say more than likely, he's giving you space because you told him you need to be studying. And he doesn't want to distract you or worse bother you after you told him this test was important.
I'm GOING IN TO NURSING TOO! I'm so excited to read about someone pursuing nursing!
I don't get the vibe that he's upset, although as a girl, I understand your paranoia. I think he just read that you're not available, and decided to just end it at that. He may be disappointed, but certainly not mad. Text him as soon as you're free to show that you do love hanging out with him.
- If you had a time machine and could see 1 person, who would you go see and why? I would see Aristotle, not only would I be able to bump shoulders with Alexander the Great I would love to pick at Aristotle's brain about philosophy, his views on life what he thinks the meaning is and how he sees the world in a few thousand years, maybe even slip an iPhone in his pocket and see if we have flying cars and floating houses when I come back to the present.
- Do people see me as I see my self in a mirror or as I see myself in a picture? I'm extremely ugly in pictures, like crooked nose, crooked lips, and two different eye sizes, but in a mirror I can't see it, everything looks just so much better. I don't know if it's my phone camera doing it (iPhone X). How do people see me?