How to update itunes with a not as recent computer?

I have songs on my itunes account that I did not buy so I can't get them through my phone wirelessly. When I plug my cable from my iphone 4s to my macbook pro it says I need an itunes account 10.6.3 or higher to compute with my phone. I go to download the most recent itunes app and it says that my computer needs to be 10.6.8 or higher. Is there a way to download a less recent version of itunes without having to buy the os x lion upgrade or how can I get my music on my phone without using the cable because I also don't have icloud on my laptop?

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There's no option. You have to buy an icloud or you can download all songs from internet… Please check your fb account… I will give you answer…

Try one of the options at the links below.

BTW, why are you against modernizing your computer with this-> http://store.apple.com/...ow-leopard (OS 10.6 DVD US$19.99) ? You know, it wasn't but five years ago that a new OS (Mac or Windows) cost $160. Now it is 20 lousy bucks. Didn't you pay more than one thousand for this computer? The economics of this dilemma make no sense to me. Skip three lattes and you have it.