I'm Upset Because Life Didn't Turn Out How It's Meant To Be?

I'm nearly 30 years old. My twenties wasn't the best time of my life. I'm upset because I didn't do a lot of things I was meant to do in my twenties. I dropped out of university, didn't learn how to drive, I was so broke and couldn't afford many things. I didn't go on holiday and so forth. Low self esteem is the reason why I achieved nothing in my twenties. If life went okay for me, I could have got a car, had an iphone and not repaying debt. Right now I'm repaying debt and have a bad credit history. For the rest of my life, I'm going to feel sad for not achieving anything in my twenties. When I see young women being happy in their twenties, I get jealous. What can I do?

Wow, I'm sorry to hear that, I've had similar experiences. First and foremost, now you're 30 regretting your 20's, so let me ask you something, didn't it seem like the time just flew? Didn't some of those momories and choices you made at 21 or 22 seem like yesterday?

Guess what, tomorrow you'll be 40! What memories do you want to have of your 30's? Do you want to say you did nothing in your 30's this time you can say it's not only low self esteem but that you were terribly upset and jealous?

I have been there, I swear! Don't do it, they're gone, it sucks, other are using theirs and you didn't its upsetting, now go live! Enjoy your 30's! Learn to drive, go back to university, get a good paying job and go get an iPhone and go on holiday! Do those things you regret not doing then! You'll only regret STILL not doing them if you don't!

You get one ride on this thing called life, whether you enjoy it or sleep through it, once it's done it's done, so why not savor it a bit. Stop the bitter regret, why suck on the lemon, go taste it, challenge yourself, work hard, play hard, love truly, be positive, be helpful, have faith, and find the humor and the magic that's all around you. If not, you can always watch those around you doing it instead, you can suffer and hate them for what seems like good fortune, when more often than not, it's a series of choices paying dividends!

You deserve better! Treat yourself right!

Meditate,
Start eating proper things!

Stop watching tv. Thats how they controlling your mind subconiously putting things into your head, look into mk-ultra, frequencies study then see how it works.

We really don't innerstand/overstand bow special we really are.

In 7years you will see.

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You gotta stop thinking like that. Period.

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