I can't make my mind up if I like her or not?

So there's this girl in my college class, Jess. When I first saw her I straight away thought, "nah, she's not my type."
But nearly two months after we started this course, we got talking on BBM when she broadcasted a problem about her iPhone and I told her what to do. We got talking about college and the we got talking about what we want in the future in terms of education or work and then we went to sleep.

It was a few weeks later we got talking on BBM again and this time we stayed talking, and then after college the next day I hung out with Jess and the other girl she hangs about with. After that we were still talking on BBM and it was after certain things she did or said that I was under the impression she liked me more than friends.

As the weeks have gone on, I've sort of been under the impression she likes me all the more and I've been wondering if she admitted she liked me, what would I say?

When she went off in a funny mood yesterday and I got paranoid she was in a funny mood because of me, I started to think how much I did like her. But then I look at other things about her and suddenly I don't like her like that. I've heard rumours of her past which I'm not keen on. People say don't believe rumours, and the person who told me can't tell stories right anyway.
And after last night, I had this odd dream she went off with some random lad she'd only just met, and they got drunk and we didn't know where she'd gone, and I was worried sick about her and right now despite that being a dream, these feelings are the same in real life.

I like her but I don't. What should I do?

Stay friends for now

You gotta figure yourself out. Think about her going off with someone else and if it makes you upset and angry then you like her. Do you think about her a lot? If you do, you like her. Do you think she's beautiful? Yes? You like her. I can't tell you, only you can work it out.

Just, don't feel like you have to like her because she likes you.

Oh don't worry too much. Thought it was just me having dreams about someone I'm not sure whether I like, thank God it's not just me.

If you're friends with her, continue being friends, but start having closer relationship, ask her for a hug when having a bad day, smile a lot. It will help you understand.
Ignore the rumours ahahaha, the person that I like (not sure if i like him or not) has done many bad things in his past, and i mean really bad. But at the end of the day, it's what your heart desires that you have to go after. STOP LOOKING BACK.

As time goes by your figure it out buddy

Think deeply and then take a desciosion.best of luck.

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