I don't know what to do! Should I contact him first? Is it over?

So to make a long story short the guy I'm dating did something really inconsiderate of my feelings. I texted him (Sat, July 6th) saying "lets hit the beach" at like 12pm. Didn't here anything from him, so I left it alone. Went on Facebook the next day (sunday) around 4pm, come to see that he posted a screen shot of his iPhone saying he's at the pool with his best friend and his best friends wife. I'm just tired of the effed up stuff that he does. So I commented and said "guess that's why you haven't replied to me, hope you had an AWESOME time at the pool, friend" then deleted him off fb. He texted me right away saying "really?", "Messed up." I ignored him. That was three weeks ago and we haven't spoken, and I'm miserable. And on the verge of texting him. I just got really tired of being ignored constantly. And at the time I didn't care if we spoke again. Now I do. Do you think its over? Should I text him? But I want him to text me first, cause he was wrong. The worse part is that I don't know if we'll EVER talk again. I don't know what to do! I'm losing it.

Contact him first else you could lose him for good. Its not a big deal if he wanted to go out with his friends instead. I think maybe your being a bit clingy. Maybe you text him so much that he just ignores it. You need to slow down with your texting to be honest and only text him now and then so it seems like a surprise to hear from u.

the deleting was over the top. You should of just ignored it. Its his facebook /his life. He doesn't have to revolve his posts/life around u. A nice girlfriend doesn't care for these things. Else guys think your being too much for them.

text him! Don't make the mistake I did because I ignored a guy so much over a mistake he made, that i'm now on here tryna work out how to get him back.

But don't date this guy, just remain friends. He just doesn't seem that much into you. And that's the honest way I see it.

I know how you are boo, you that clingy annoying girlfriend, he just wanted to chill with his boys leave that niqqa alone, you didn't have to do alllat. So text him back before he think its okay to give the D to some other girl