I like someone I haven't yet met?

Okay so if you have nothing nice to say don't say it all. So I'm 13. And I like someone who is 18. I for sure know he is not older since I've talked to him on the phone and I've been talking to him for 2 years now. So over the summer he told me he liked me I also liked him but I didn't tell him and he is so sweet and all he honestly cares about me. He calls me Hun and sweetheart once in a while he will ask me is there anything that I say or do that bothers you? He has helped me since I used to self harm. He would text me a lot but not as much since he is in school and stuff but when he can text me he will tell me something like this "Hey Hun hope all is well. I miss you." And he will respect me so much. I know you guys would say pedo or whatever but honestly he isn't like that he asks me if I'm okay and not too long ago maybe like 1 month ago he told me he liked me and he would wait till I'm the correct age. Yes I'm aware it's illegal and *** but when he told me he liked me I didn't tell him I liked him back. And I can't stop thinking about him I miss him so much he hasn't texted since he lost his iPhone and he texts me on his iPod and he doesn't have Wi-Fi so yea yesterday he texted me since he went to his friends and said he missed me like crazy and hoped I was ok. So is it wrong I have feelings for him? And how do I tell him I like him? What's your opinion on this? What would you do?

Well, I'm glad you know it's illegal. But that doesn't mean you can't like him. But you do know that people can lie on the other end. I'm not saying he is a lier and I'm definitely not going to give you the "men are predators" talk. But you're so young, and so is he. By the time it's legal for you two to date, you might have moved on. I suggest to not commit, keep in mind the other options, but maybe still keep in contact. Do your parents know what's going on?

You're young, so yeah, I think dating/liking him is fine. Lots of people say "age is just a number", but remember to be careful, he's a lot older than you and knows a lot more. I know he sounds like a really nice guy, but he may have a bad group of family/friends that you could get pulled into.
If I was you, I wouldn't let him go. He sounds really nice, and I wouldn't sit there pondering, he might be gone before you know it.

Let him go he's to old for you

Don't date him… You're too young to wast your life on a older man that will be (old) when you just start to be able to live your life. A few years is probably ok, but 5 is just over the top. There's probably a nice boy out there looking for you right now, keep your eyes open. Hope this helps.

He's an older gentleman. That's no good.

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