IPhone 4s To Laptop Via Bluetooth?

My friend was able to connect his iPhone to his laptop via Bluetooth and use it as a kind of remote control with his music. I have tried to replicate this and failed. I have looked and a hundred different forums and tried various programmes and I can't get them to connect. I will post here the different processes I have gone through in the hopes someone can help me out.

1. I connected my phone using the Bluetooth on my laptop.

Bluetooth Devices>Add Device> Enter Pairing Code

I entered the paring code. On My phone it stated that connection was unsuccessful. But On my laptop the device was connected successfully, all though the driver was not installed.

I searched for the driver but could not find one, and told it was impossible to connect an iPhone 4S.

But then on another forum I was told it was possible, and that I needed to download Windows Mobile Device Centre. Which I did

I downloaded WMDC, but when I tried to install it, I got the error message that windows did not have the correct components.

I tried to find said components and was told that I had to download windows media player, Which for some reason is no longer bundled with your OS. But for the life of me I can't find a download for it!

This is where I'm now! So if anyone can understand this, and has any answers, or tips, or just a clear answer to why this will not work I will be very happy

Maybe you can update your drivers to try once again. Just google to download "DGTSoft Drivers Update Utility", and then install on your computer to update your drivers automatically. It knows which drivers are compatible with your computer. Try it right now.