Iphone sends iMessages to other numbers?

Having trouble with iMessage, I iMessage my friend and all of our iMessages can be read from other family's iPhones on the att account / apple account how can I stop the iMessages from showing up on the other iphone please answer

I'm really not sure. Try using an email address instead of a phone number on iMessage, or use a different Apple ID. That's all I can think of.

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