ITunes update is frustrating me

Just got the iTunes update… Ugh it sucks. I have an iphone 4 and me and my mom share the same apple id. This is a new computer too (macbook pro) she has a few songs on there that i want. But thats it, no apps or photos or anything.

When i press files>>devices the sync part is faded and won't let me press it. How do i sync ONLY the songs i want onto my iPhone. I have a gift card ill use later also and buy more songs but i have no idea how to do that either. (sorry about all the lower case letters i don't know what this computer is doing)

Both iTunes must be logged in to the same Apple ID.
On the Mac, go to the Store menu > Authorize this computer.

On the iPhone…
Settings > Store and Settings > iCloud

For selective copying, read this…
http://support.apple.com/.../kb/HT1535

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