My apple earbuds don't fit?

So i just got an iphone for christmas. Of course it comes with earbuds. The first time putting them into the headphone port, it wasn't fitting all the way. I plugged them into the android and it was fitting and working just fine. I looked in the headphone port, and there's nothing in there.

Added (1). It still doesn't change when I put a toothpick into the port and scrape it.

Are you sure your don't need a Lightning to 3.5 mm Headphone Jack Adapter. It should have come with the phone.
Some model of iphones don't support a standard headset

Could be so much dust and lint in there, that it has felted - turned into a solid little brick. Us e a WOODEN or PLASTIC toothpick - never ever metal - and gently clean that out.

Apple has 4 conductor and android and everybody else has 3 conductor plugs. Apple doesn't want to play with anyone else. Get an adapter or buds with trs plug instead of trrs plug