My ex husband thinks i shouldn't have a life

My ex husband is trying to ruin my life because he believes i shouldn't have one. We have 2 children aged 4 and 5 they are my world my parents take them 3 nights a week because i play dominoes professionally and its mainly a night time activity. He has a go at them and me for them taking them so much the kids are happy and so are my parents. He won't take them any nights a week and i wouldn't push it because my children are not happy at his house he shouts at them allot! He says i should spend every night at home taking care of them. I go out once a week if i'm lucky because i never have any money he refuses to pay maintenance hes self employed and lies to the CSA. I spend every penny on my children so they have a happy life any treats like new clothes nights out etc are funded by my boyfriend.i'm begging my ex for money for christmas for the kids he refuses to pay anything he won't even get the anything from him my Boyfriend is giving me some money for them for presents.meanwhile my ex goes to concerts every week lives in a 3 bed house funded by the government and won't even give me a penny for the kids. If i say anything he just tells me he's not funding my lifestyle truth is without my parents and Boyfriend backing me up financially and with help i'd be screwed should i cut him out of mine and my kids life? He sees the kids once a month for half an hour at my mums where he has a coffee and sits and plays with his phone ( which is a brand new iphone) what should i do?

What a pig

I find it ironic how an unfit parent like your ex tries to tell you how to raise your children. If you are talking about getting more financial support from him, that will never happen without going through the courts. As for his harassing you on how you raise your children, ignore him. If he wants to talk civil about something regarding the children it's one thing, but once he starts lecturing you, hang up.

If he does not pay anything towards your children and they are perfectly happy it's none of his business what you do!

Get evidence of him working go to court and get your money.

There's no court in the land that would take his side, you are doing nothing wrong!