She ridicules me for relaxing? - 2

I don't have a job, but I'm going to college and my Girlfriend also is going to college and has a job( We're both 18 and have dated 2.5 years). I hope to get a job in college. Seeing as how I have no job, I'm enjoying my summer, by sitting poolside, with a cooler and having a little booze( and water) and maybe a nap( think the opening scene of Billy Madison but with an iPhone and subtract the 2 friends). I know what some of you are thinking, but remember, I'm going to college in the fall and am getting a job so I'm enjoying 8 weeks of summer.
Anyway, every day after work, she'll come over and ridicule me for relaxing. " look at my boyfriend, the lazy hedonist. What did you do today? Drink? How many? Every day is a holiday to you isn't it( well it is summer so yeah) I waited tables because I have a job". Fortunately, during these holier than thou lectures, I'm a little toasted and usually she notices. Now maybe I'm a hedonist and maybe I'm not but what 18 year old isn't without a little hedonistic tendency? After her talk I'll just tell her " Sweetie, it's so nice out, go home, go put on your swimsuit, come back over, and I'll make you a drink and you can tan. You deserve a little R&R. I feel the need to tell you( not sure why) but I do smoke a cigar, but only 2x a week. She only tells me " You know I hate it when you do that". I do get up early and i stay up pretty late so if I yawn in front of her she starts up with the " Aww, is my lazy boy tired from not doing anything? Poor baby." My family has no problem with it and my parents are pretty laid back. I want her to stop.

Explain to her your not happy with how she is treating you, explain your reasons for doing what your doing, and ask her to respect your decision because it is your decision to make and you are respecting her and her decision to work, if she still doesn't like your decision and won't respect that then maybe you should give you and her some time apart. She doesn't have to agree with you but she should at least except your choice, having some time apart may give her some perspective. Although make it clear that you are not breaking up or anything just that if she continues you treat you like she is you would rather she did things apart from you for a while so you could find more enjoyment in being together at other times.