Should i tell her the truth? (Zoosk)?
Okay so I'm 17 and I play a game on my iPhone. I wanted some free gems so i had to make a Zoosk account to receive an amount of gems for the game. I just made an account with basic info. From there i noticed this chick started to chat with me. I had previously faked my age to make a Zoosk account. So this chick gave me her number and i have been texting her for a while now. 6 weeks. I have fallen in love. I know she has too, but its kinda too late now to tell her i'm 17. She is 24 and my account says i'm 26. She asked for a pic so i sent her my older cousin pic. (WHY DID I DO THAT?) ugh But i'm really in love but i'm too young for her. She's sweet and cute. I know she's in love with me as she has told me, but she doesn't know who i'm in reality. I don't know how to tell her because it is kind of too late now )
Yes you should tell her. There's no way you can keep this up forever. Keep talking to her though. Casually introduce the topic of her dating someone younger than her, if she would or if she has. A lie really is no way to start a relationship but there may be hope for you yet as you have managed to stir up feelings of love and women tend to be illogical creatures (hopefully she's one of them); this is where you will use this to your advantage. Before you drop the bomb, a day or 2 before you need to be as sweet as possible. Send her an ecard (123greetings.com). Tell her she's beautiful, you love her, etc. You also need to portray that you have a really mature personality and you have ambitions if you haven't already portrayed that.
Now you tell her. Say you have something to tell her, send her your real pic. THE BEST ONE! Tell her thats really you, tell her that your really 9 years her junior. Tell her some cliche stuff lik you had no intentions of tricking her, and that at first it was just fun for you but eventually you started to think about her more, and that she slowly became the main reason you wake up every morning with a smile on your face. But you started to fear that she would stop talking to you if she knew the truth so you foolishly continued the lie. Apologize you *** off and see what she does. Tell her you don't blame her for not talking to you anymore and no matter if she does your grateful for the happiness she gave you.
If she stops talking to you, leave her alone for a day or so. Then message her saying your light is gone and you feel cold and dark and that you need her. Say that love should not have an age issue and that your almost 18 so it shouldn't be a big deal if we were so in love. Say you will never lie to her again.
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