Worst news I could hear. Just turned 18 too?

So prom was june 6 I had fun then june 7-9 I was in wildwood nj I had a blast. Then june 11 came my bday and I had fun ib the morning my girlfriend brought me a cupcake and twizzlers made a big.paragraph ig post about me. Theni came home got nothing for my bday. And I never ask for anything… All I wanted was a iphone. I cried last night. I got no cake no song no.nothing. Then today my girlfriend was sad so she wasn't talking to me. Then after svhool when I was walking her home she told me during wildwood she got drunk too much and so did my friend and he gavs her oral sex(saturday)… On sunday I she came my motel and we did the same thing… Then today I found out my mom got cancer… Like why god doing this to me. I get all A's play sports respectful young man and then this happens… She told me she was too drunk to remember… I'm cried earlier then cried agsin cuz my mommy. Help what should I do to my girlfriend I love her but why…

I'd personally ditch the girl bro. She's obviously going to be a lot of work and drama. You can't afford to waste your time on a cheater when your mother has cancer.

Being drunk is no excuse to cheat. However, if I read that one part right about the motel thing then you just pretty much condoned her cheating by being sexual with her which will have her believing that you are okay with what happened. Also, you cried over an Iphone? Really? That is so petty. While these things are minor, your mom is going through something major. When all is said and done… You can get another girlfriend and you can get a phone but you only get one mom so screw the rest and focus on her.

I think your cheating girlfriend, cancerous mother, and lack of iPhone are the least of a problems. You need a dictionary, my friend.

Your mom is more important than your girlfriend right now.

Your girlfriend is the least of your worries. She waited until you got home and after you went down on her to tell you, your friend did that to her the day before you did. I'd break up with her…
But as for your mother keep the faith, pray for her, encourage her, because she needs you more than that girl does or ever will. And this is when she needs you the most.