What Do I Do When My Sister Tries To Make Me Feel Bad About Myself?
I'm 16 and my sister always makes these comments in front of my family, such as, "Why don't you ever take your makeup off?" I don't wear a lot of makeup I just use it to fill in my eyebrows. The fact that she says it in front of my whole family basically states her intention. She always makes fun of me by telling me she's going to walk in on me after I take a shower to see my "real face." My dad also jokes about this too. He says I shouldn't get the iPhone X because it's not going to recognize me without my makeup. My worst insecurity is my eyebrows, I plucked them out when I was 12 and now they're patchy and sparse so I fill them in everyday. How do I get them to stop?
I feel sorry for you. I think your family should be considerate to you. You should love each other. You'd better hope you can make a light make-up. You will be more confident in the beauty of dressing up every day and wish you a happy life.
Do you have a mom?
These two are being cruel and abusive, and they need to be told that.
Sure, you may wear makeup, and that's your choice, and you have a reason.
Go ahead and tell them why, and then let them cogitate over that.
Tell them you have every right to look your best, and that the incident with your eyebrows has left them damaged and it only makes sense to fix them since you have that ability.
You have a right to feel good about the way you look.
You also have a right to the support of your family.
Tell them that, too, and ask them to stop using this to make you feel terrible, because it isn't what healthy family members do.
Separate the reason your doing it from the reason they are making fun of you.
Consider whether you might be overdoing, and leaving yourself open to more scrutiny instead of making your eyebrows look more normal- just for your own benefit, not that it justifies their behavior.
And tell them, how it makes you feel when they say these things, because while it is careless, they may not realize how hurtful it is. Tell them, don't cry or be dramatic, and ask them to please act like family members who love each other, because you love them. And then show up to breakfast one day without it, just to prove your own point. It should only take once.
Eyebrows supposed to grow back. Don't take anything they say seriously, probably you are the prettiest one in the family and they feel more insecure than you. Bully them back, make fun of them in the smallest things. And then you'll see they'll eventually stop.
You should shoot back something like this when your sis goes to make fun of you wearing make up. "why are you so worried about me wearing or not wearing makeup?! Is your life really that dull?" Will it be awkward? Yes… But you need to stand up for yourself and make it known you're tire of it and what she is doing is immature and stupid.
Just don't let her know it bothers you when she says stuff cause if she knows it bothers you she will do it even more
Tell her to go F herself.
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