What shall I do to help her? Any suggestions? - 1

I'm Amanda 18 years old girl.Me and my other three frnds are really really close (bff's), okay now to get to it one of them is really really poor, we've been frnds for 9 years, she lost her parents when she was 7 yrs old and then stayed in the orphanage till she turned 16 or 17 I'm not sure. She is very lovable and kind, everyone likes her because she is thankfull for what she got and fun to be around. All of us are fithy rich, we have all these fancy stuff like iPhones and Macs and Ferrari cars. She got lung disease she faces difficulty in breathing. She works as a waitress in damon's grill and she doesn't get paid much I think 40-55 dollars along with some tips. She lives in a messy apartment but she is trying to improve it, one day I slept in her house and she was very kind she went to the market bought me snacks and stuff. She is very thin 70 pounds but she is very cute (green eyes, blonde hair, bronze skin, she keeps on smiling all boys wants to date her but she doesn't like to date). She saves her money to buy her medicine which is very expensive she spends half of the money for it, she told me, she only eats tuna and sausage with eggs to save money, she never uses us at all and never looked at our food when we eat or anything. I want to help her but without making her know! I really feel bad for her. I dunno what to get her or what to help her with. Any suggestions?
Please no rude answers and silly comments only suggestions will be great

Tough. I don't suppose she'd even want to accept your charity? There may be a way to ensure her meds are paid for (by one of you guys), that would help her out? Speak to her about it? Or maybe her doctor? If she's still a minor she's entitled to help. In the meantime invite her over often, let her know you're there for her.

If you really have a Ferrari, then you should also have a lot of spare money. If not, and you really want to help, than sell it and you will have the money. Your friends may also donate some anmount.

Once you have the money, give it to her. If you want to help without her ever knowing, than you can try sending an anonymous checque, or just deposit the money on her bank account.
If you want to do it by a special way, try maybe faking a competition and make her win, then send the money as the company which organized the competition.

Or maybe ask her if she wants to live with you, or find her better job.

Well for one, you're a great friend for wanting to help her! Kudos for that!

If you've ever heard the saying "if you give a man a fish, he eats for a day. But if you teach a man to fish, he eats for a lifetime," you can understand what I'm trying to say. I'm sure she feels a little subservient being around you and your other wealthy friend and she seems very sweet. You could just give her little presents, mainly things that you know she needs (toiletries, food, school supplies, etc.) and maybe leave it in her home without her knowing. She may be very humble, believe it or not, with how she lives. Not saying you are materialistic or anything, but some people just don't see the beauty in the finer things in life. At the same time, it is a possibility she does not want to ask you guys for anything because she doesn't want a pity-party, which is completely understandable.

Start maybe by talking to her and asking her if she needs help, or dropping hints that if she EVER needs help she can come to you.
Another thing you can do, is help her find a better job that pays more and gives her a little more experience with something.
When you talk to her, if you choose to, make sure you say it in a way that you want her to know you are there for her but you don't "pity" her or her situation just so she won't take it the wrong way. When you guys go to the mall or the store, ask her to come along and offer to pay for some stuff and in a friendly way refuse for her to say "No."
I'm sure she will understand that you guys love her and only want the best for her, try to give that message in the best way possible.

Ask her to move in with you! You would provide her with food and a place to stay and all she would pay for would be her medicine! If she gets suspicious make another friend move in too, so it doesn't seem like she's getting "special treatment" it could work!