What should I do, teen w/ family probs?

This may seem long, but I really need help… So please read.
my life was as positive as ever- until a few weeks ago. My brother graduated and my aunt got married- on the same day. So I'd be busy and occupied. Being around my moms side of the family has its ups and downs, just like every family. I was very annoyed and resorted to tweeting my feelings, which never has its good outcomes. Of course, my "super wiz" uncle found me on twitter, and I don't hide any of my social networks (almost my whole family with Facebook accounts are friends with me on Facebook!) He found one of my tweets, that said "I hate my family! Well, I hate my moms side of the family. My dads side is fine" To this day, I wish I could take that back, I'm young, and I make mistakes. I would change how I said it, but not what I said, and that's final. Nobody is going to take that away from me, or verbally abuse me enough to change that, just because majority of her side are judgmental, disgusting, negative people. That's a lot coming from me, commonly called "naïve", and I always want to see the good in people. The next day, I head over my uncles house with my family, and he verbally attacks me, curses me out, gets in my face, and kicks me out of his home. My mom is there, and she doesn't even make eye contact with me. No one does. That's another great feeling to have, ya know? (Sarcasm) I don't say anything back, abide by his wishes, and walk out of the house. When people disrespect you, you don't disrespect them back. At the end of the day, you'll be the better person. My tweet has been since deleted… My grandmother has been "shunning" me as well. I recently got the iPhone 5, and my grandmother is the one who pays my phone bill. I've reached out to her many times explaining to her why I wrote it, and apologizing. She isn't accepting it. I have all A's and a few high B's, I never get in trouble, I'm always respectful, and I do one little thing, and I'm a horrible child. I dunno how to deal with

I kind of know what your going through. Just give them time and they'll forgive you. Or just play the Waiting Game until someone else messes up. They'll most likely forget about the Tweet. I honestly hope things end in your favour.

A lot of families act this way. I know mine did. I think that they're just hurt, but that still doesn't give them the right to do what they did to you and not defending you when your uncle was throwing a fit. And I'm extremely proud of your way of thinking when it comes to respect! I couldn't agree with you more. I would wait a few more days and try apologizing again, if you feel you should. And show them that you deleted that tweet. And maybe you can talk about how and why they make you feel that way. Again, that's up to you. You'll do fine!

First, You should never say you hate your you family, I know sometimes you just want to be left alone and when you said you hate your family, your mom or other members in your family might be thinking you don't respect them, I used to fight with my mom and i always said "I hate you" but the truth is I don't hate her, And she knows it and she somtimes says she hates me. But i know she doesn't, I guess you can give it time, Your grandmother might be ignoring you because she's hurt, don't worry.