Where is god, is he even real?

I use to believe in god but now my life got worse and when you pray its like i'm patient and noting ever happens. So I come to realize there's no god. If hes with you all the time, then why does he enjoy us suffering? It's pretty stupid if you ask me. Praying to god and noting ever happens. My sister is a idiot who needs to stop smoking weed. Ever since she did our life became miserable and horrible. She treats us like *** and will punch and kill any one of us and have no feelings. She can kill a animal and be like good. She got mad over her iphone stop working and threw my moms phone. Its like I wish she would die because she's one of the main reasons why my life sucks.

If I answer "no" to your second question, it renders your first question moot. I'll go for the twofer.No.

Ok You need Jesus! Trials will always come but hopefully you'll acept Jesus Christ and Christianity and Follow His Rules and Everything. I'd start with going to a christain or baptist church.

God is a joke like the tooth fairy and santa claus.

Sounds like what you want is a magic genie, not a god.
You won't believe in your god because he doesn't do what you want?

Jesus said: "Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you." (Matthew 7:7)

Then this: "I tell you the truth, if you have faith and do not doubt, not only can you do what was done to the fig tree, but also you can say to this mountain, 'Go, throw yourself into the sea,' and it will be done. If you believe, you will receive whatever you ask for in prayer." (Matthew 21:21-22)

And James added: "But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. That man should not think he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all he does." (James 1:6-8)

It's all about faith. You must believe in your heart that what you ask for is already a done deal.

The only other consideration is unconfessed sin. God couldn't defend Job from Satan's attacks because of Job's unconfessed sin. But as soon as he confessed, God restored to Job all he had lost and more. If you want God to hear you, the remedy is simple enough: If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. (1 John 1:9)

Read this: http://gracethrufaith.com/selah/o-you-of-little-faith/