Why does my husband treat me like this?

My husband and I have been married for a year and he's always been this way. He works from home and we don't talk much during the day because he's always busy. The only time he says anything to me is if he's hungry. He will say "can you cook something? I'm starving" and if course I always do. He never wants to do stuff with me unless he thinks he's gonna get something out of it. If I tell him I'm bored he tells me to go to the kitchen and clean it or cook something. Sometimes when I wanna go do something he acts like he's working when I know he's not. He never comes to bed with me and complains that I go to bed to early and I always have to do everything for him. Bring him towels, underwear, I even bring him his plate when dinner is ready. I guess I feel like his own personal slave them wife. It's always go make me something to eat, bring me some underwear, bring me a towel, bring me my vitamins, or he will complain if he can't find something like his sandals or bedroom shoes and ask me why i don't know where they are at. I just reply well I don't wear your stuff. What do I do? It's all about him and he tells me to shut up because he's about to be in a phone conference. Then he complains I'm on Facebook to much but it's because I'm bored. Yes! This is 100% legit and I'm a very real person laying on my bed typing this on my iPhone.

Added (1). I go to bed kinda early so I wake up around 6-7 in the morning and he tells at me that I left the bedroom door open and it wakes him up and I'm not thinking about him and only myself. All because I left the bedroom door open. He will pound on the wall till I come close the door.

Added (2). When I try to go places he just tells me that we can't afford for me to go places. I try to get a job and he says that we live to far in the country and its not worth the gas in the truck to go. He says I'm more useful around the house because I can keep the house clean and food cooked. I have to tell him what I'm cooking before I cook it to get approval from him. He's never turned down any meal down that I gave him for approval.

I mean you put up with this so he is never going to stop messing with you like that you have to let him know that you are fed up with the bs and i think that you should just have a girls day week to let him know how it would feel if you were gone like this forever just you and a girlfriend

Go out. Get a hobby. Make some friends. And maybe talk to him. Tell him how you feel.

Doesn't sound like you work; get yourself a job, even a part time one. Get out and find something to do for yourself. He is making you his slave and it's one thing to do things for the one you love and another to be bossed around.