Can I delete an Iphone message from both sides?

I drew something and wanted to show a friend, but I don't want it to be stolen(hacked). (My name is on it btw).

If you made him do it.

Sorry once your message or pictures have been sent, you lose control over what happens to that message or pictures once the other person receives it. They can copy, paste, forward, post and display it to as many people as they want. And even if you say not to do so, you really do not have control, and you would never know if they have done anything with the message or images, until it was brought to your attention in some manner.