Disabled IPhone 3G can't remember the passcode?

I have a old iPhone 3G that I haven't used in over two years.

now it's disabled because i can't remember the passcode and the iPhone wants me to connect to iTunes the thing is i've never backed it up to iTunes.
If I do will I lose anything that is still on the phone and if so is there any way to bypass this without loseing any of the pic's or any thing that may still be on the phone

Nope. You'll have to restore.iTunes may ask you if you want to back it up before you restore though, even if it's disabled.

Besides that, why do you still have it if you haven't used it in 2 years?

You may try the default backup password firstly, such as 123456.

when i forgot my backup password and had to get back my files on my iPhone, a tool helped me much:

Tenorshare iPhone Backup Unlocker

you can get it from the below source or find it by searching via Google

All I want to do is clear my old Iphone out to give it to the homeless so they can have an emergency phone!