Found out he is married? Please don't judge (details inside)?

For the past 3.5 months I have been seeing a man who I thought was wonderful. I'm 27 and looking to settle down soon, not date around forever… He is 34 and claimed he is looking for a similar thing. He is compassionate, kind, and always showers me with attention (we see each other 2-3 times a week and he calls and texts a good amount while we're apart). Just last night, he was over at my apartment and used the restroom and left his iPhone on the table. I saw him get a message from a woman's name and the message displayed "Hey, when will you be home tonight?" I was shocked and couldn't think of what to do. So I just told him he got a message when he came out and I said I already saw it. He said its his sister and she's staying with him for a week. I have never Facebook stalked him before, but I had to know the truth. I wasn't able to find him through a search logged in on my name, but under my roommate's account later that night we found him and he has wedding pictures of him and a woman, which means he blocked me on Facebook so I wouldn't find out and he lied to me as well as cheated on his wife multiple times. I don't know what to do now. I have never been in this situation before. Do I tell his wife? I could easily message her on Facebook now, or do I just cut him off?

Just cut him off now. His relationship with his wife is his business and there's no reason for you, the other woman, to call and hurt her. She'll find out soon enough.

Sorry this happened to you.

Yeah, tell his wife for sure. She deserves to know. Don't contact him anymore, but you owe it to his wife to tell her.

Message her and tell her what you've discovered and how you discovered it. Apologize to her and tell her you were looking for a husband not a cheater.

I think you should tell his wife. She deserves to know. Tell her in person though and say that you had no idea and the second you found out you came to her with this knowledge. She might be mad at you at first, but she really should be made aware.

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