IPhone 5 won't sync to iTunes library?

So I just got the iphone 5c and when I try to sync iTunes library to transfer my music, it's still gray. Also, every time i connect my phone to my computer iTunes recognizes it as a new phone and asks me everytime if I want to restore settings or use as new iphone. I must've restored at least 5 times and still can't sync. I beginning to think it might be the library and not the phone.

You may refer to this tutorial, it's about how to fix iTunes sync problem with iPod/iPhone.
http://www.mac-dvd.com/how-to-fix-itunes-sync-problem-with-iphone-ipod-ipad.html
Hope it helps. Feel free to email me if you need further help.

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