Am I an ungrateful daughter, on Christmas?

My mom hasn't really gotten me anything for the past 3 years on Christmas & also has called me a dog on my Birthday & for no reason returned the things I got on Black Friday & also my birthday present. She keeps telling me i'm ungrateful & rude & mean to her, but i'm trying to be truthful. Every time I say something to 'stand up for myself' she always thinks i'm being ungrateful & rude. She has called me many many many names & she is also the reason why I'm in such disgust with myself & am so down & negative about myself because, all she does is treat me badly. In all honesty, I don't ask for much. I don't even have cell phone service & i'm 14 soon going to be 15! Everyone I know insults me for not having it, so for quite a long time i've been asking my mom for it & all she tells me is that it's unneeded & she can't 'afford' it. When in reality, she get's 2K per month from her job & her cell phone bill is only 47$. She handed me down a broken IPhone 4 & i'm okay with using it, but she keeps saying it's unndeed when we have Wi-Fi in the house. But, I keep telling her that if in a case, I need to call someone in an emergency that isn't so urgent to call the police I have nothing!
Also, another thing that bothers me is that I gave my mom a necklace last christmas with a perfume that costed 65$ last year & this year she re-gifted the necklace & gave it back to me. It makes me so mad, that she didn't put any effort like I did when I gave her a present.
I feel that i'm very very thankful & very grateful for what I have, but when it comes to actually needing something or maybe having something nice for once.
I don't have much clothes either, all I have is 2 pairs of jeans & I only wear sweatshirts & I have one pair of shoes that I wear on a daily basis.
What do I do, am I ungrateful, am I a bad person for knowing what I need?
I'm only 14 & I feel really terrible. On Christmas Day.
She also actually got something for our cat, rather than me as her own child.

Added (1). I can't go to my dad's either

Added (2). Also, my mom has told me that she needs to appreciate me more, but she hasn't done anything.

If i could id send you stuff i have so much clothes i don't even wear.id talk to another family member about your problem. I bet they can help!

Please call you child servies and report you mother.
Also tell here this: If you didn't want me so much then you shouldn't have done the deed.

Report her to CPS. She is mean and since you don't have clothing. That's bad. If you don't want to report her.RUN… Run away!

There's not much you can do right now. Youre not old enough for a job. (sigh)… My mom never gave me anything. I was the only kid in the whole high school Without a phone, hardly any clothes, no makeup, no Cool shoes (mine were old dirty and torn). I had nothing. She refused to take me for a drivers license test until i was 19 i got my license. My dad got me a cheap used car (which i was greatful) i got a job and bought my own things. Sucks but keep calm until youre 16 and able 2 have a job. Don't expect much from her. Maybe she's trying to teach you to not be so materialistic and all that stuff. Hang in there. I know how you feel. Mothers are very hurtful sometimes. Ugh! Brought me memories!

You should definitely call CPS and tell them about the way your mom is treating you, and that is child abuse.