Am I overstressing about my life right now?

Look, i know people in this world have it so much worse than i do. I really have no right to complain. But my parents are always on my case about my grades. They forget all my achievements and focus just on my failures. They tell me that i'm a dissapointment to them and that my future is not promising in the slightest. They always tell me that they have my best interests at heart but i really can't stand it anymore. I haven't gone to a single high school event (homecoming, football games, etc… ) so that i could study or play soccer or something. I never have a chance to hang out with friends unless its the last day of school or semester. My winter, spring, and summer breaks are full of studying. I have no problem with it, i want to go to an Ivy league school. But the thing is, i just don't care anymore, my parents are on my case so often, that it doesn't even bother me anymore. They always compare me to my friends who are seemingly spectacular in every way, whereas my flaws are the eptiome of a hopeless case. I apparently have no planning, and that they have no hopes on my future. They tell me that at the rate i'm going at, i would be lucky to get into the local community college. We have discussions about how my future is all but tanked at this point and that all the hope they ever had on me living a good and successful life are basically over. They constantly question my right to have an iphone and get new clothes because i'm not performing well in school. I have a 3.9 gpa and a 4.5 hpa. I play varsity and club soccer. I just recently took my calculus ab and literature AP Exams. I really don't know what to do with my life anymore.

Tell them that you're tired of being treated like nobody.

Please, answer mine? 10 POINTS?