DISABLED iPHONE 4S - can't restore the iphone?

I forgotten my passcode and have disabled my iPhone. It says: iPhone is disabled - connect to itunes. Although i have iTunes (which i use for other iDevices) i have never connected my iphone to it. When I first connected the phone to the computer, it said: iTunes could not connect to phone because it is locked with a passcode. You must enter your passcode on the iphone before it can be used with itunes.

WHAT DO I DO? THANKX

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