Flying to a different state to meet someone you me online?

Have you done it? How did it go? How long did you know them before meeting?

My situation: I met this girl on an iPhone app that had nothing to do with dating or even really making friends. She messaged me we just chatted and three years later we still text all the time. She's 22 I'm 24, I want to meet her and she says she's okay with me visiting but never seems like she's thrilled at the thought.

Not really sure what to do.

When in doubt - don't

Well sounds too me that your expecting a lot when going too see her and she just isn't thinking how your thinking get your intentions across first before making the decision would be my advise too you

Well the best way is to go to that state to do other things, eg travel, go to an event etc. First it makes you look more cool, but also it means she is under less pressure.

You know in life, you never know what is going to happen, do you want to die without any scars (as Tyler Durden says). If you go there and she spurns you, you have had an adventure, experienced things.

Personally I think long-distance relationships don't work because if you can't find someone near you, then someone far away is only appealing because they are far away. Doesn't mean you can't hope, dream, wish and strive.

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