He wants to go to his ex's wedding?

My current boyfriend and I are in our mid 20's and have been dating for 2 months, and I have to admit we fell after only 3 dates which I know was too fast. Along the way I learned we had a similar past. He'd been in a 7 year relationship since highschool, and they broke up because she cheated on him. I too have been in a 6 year, long distance relationship since highschool, and broke up because he didn't want commitment. I moved on slowly, focusing on my inner happiness and in 4 years only having 1 boyfriend for a short time and many dates. But he's case I learned he had 4 including me in only 2 years. Which makes me uncomfortable. Also, the reason he broke up because they all cheated on him.

He doesn't speak to any of them, but lately we've been opening about our past. Last time we argued I found a picture of his recent ex on his iphone, and he claimed to forget it. So I tried not to make a big deal of it, and he erased it. The other problem I'm facing is, that he told me his high school ex is getting married, and asked whether or not I want to come, IF they invited him.

The thought of him expecting his ex to invite him really bothers me. He seems to not be able to move on, or move on too fast?

Should I break up with him?

You've been dating two months. I think you're worrying needlessly and making things more serious than they need to be at this point. You should be enjoying your relationship and not endlessly overanalyzing things, it's making you absolutely crazy. As for the ex, the fact that he's perfectly fine with attending her wedding points to him being completely over her. After dating her for seven years they've been a big part of each other's lives and they probably share many mutual friends. If he still hadn't moved on from her he would not be able to attend her wedding. Think about it. If you were still in love with someone would you be able to attend theirs? No, of course not, you'd probably fall apart. So he's definitely moved on, and this may even be final closure for him. I think you're worrying way too much. He probably has many people he wants you to meet that will be at the wedding. I think that's actually a sign he's really into you.

I find it suspicious that he wants to go to someone's wedding that he doesn't even know if he's invited to and I find it really strange he keeps in contact with ex's who cheated on him I don't think he's being honest with you somethings a bit fishy about him don't dump him just yet just play along with his little games and maybe just maybe you'll find out the truth about who your man really is.

Well there's a problem. First of all there's no trust, secondly you said he doesn't speak to his exes right? Then how would he know she was getting married? See the point I'm making he may indeed be talking to them, so be careful.

I would say follow your instincts, I don't want to tell someone to just break up with someone, but do what you think is right.

hope I helped

This is a step too far. Imagine how awkward the wedding would be for you and him. Explain to him how would he feel if your ex had a wedding and he went. My boyfriend didn't understand jealousy when I met him (he'd been in a 7 year relationship before hand too), he's never had a reason to be jealous so he couldn't understand why I didn't want him to keep photos of his ex.

He's being immature. I would tell him it's all you or nothing. No photos of ex, no ex wedding.

No.hard to believe he would ask you to do that.wow.

Don't break up with him, but i do believe he still has feelings for her.
Don't worry they won't get back together though, she's getting married to another man, she doesn't have time for your boyfriend.
He may like her, but i also believe he likes you. Because why else would he be with you?