How should I punish my 10-year-old daughter?

She called her 7-year-old brother yuck mouth just because he had 2 baby teeth pulled and she also decided to take air freshener and spray it around the house because she told him that his breath stunk up the house. He had that procedure some yesterday and I'm pissed off at her. I lost my temper on her yesterday and called her ugly and told her that since she is mean to her brother that she will never be beautiful and that her brother is the better child. She made me mad by bullying him and she is too old to behave that way. I also told her that a good sister would take care of their brothers when they are feeling and not bother them. I want to either spank her or take her iPhone away for a week. Any advice?

Stop trolling, jesus does anyone ever post any legit questions?

I hope this is a troll post. I'd hate to think there's a parent as ignorant as this.

Yeah what an even pathetic attempt at trolling…

Ah… Shame… You really are a very very lonely weirdo, aren't you? You don't have a daughter… You would have had to have had sex… And you're a lonely virgin living with your mother. Go and get a job or something and stop boring us all with your sad life.

Taking her iphone for a wk might help, but i wouldnt do stuff like call her ugly cause two wrongs don't make it right

You are over reacting. You fail to understand the damage you did by calling her ugly and telling her you favored her brother. YOU are too old to act that way. Spanking now serves no purpose as too much time has elapsed and taking away her phone for a week (who gives their 10 year old an Iphone?!) is also over the top. Get a grip before you do any more damage to your children.

Apologize to her for calling her ugly and telling her that she will never be beautiful, that is just as bullying as what she did to her brother. Then make her apologize to her brother and take away her phone.

Wait, your 10yo has an iPhone? You fail as a parent right there. Smdh

You demeaned her, insulted her, told her she'd never be beautiful and that she is of less value than her little brother. That seems powerful enough. Not sure you need to make it clear that she is forever less valued and has less personal power than anyone else under the roof.

Ten. Her behavior sounds exactly like a jealous 10 year old. I had 4 older brothers and sisters and they did NOT "take care of me" and care for my feelings! Where did you get the idea that 10 year old girls are angels? She didn't touch her little brother and was making a bad joke. I think you already set her straight.