How to jailbreak, pass activation stage on this iPhone in my situation?

I have a iPhone 3GS that I updated to 6.1.3 frimware yesterday. The home button does not work nor it passes the activation stage as I have updated my iPhone 3GS to iPhone 4S very recently whose SIM card I'm sure I can't use due to different sizes. I'm stuck on the activation stage and seeming my home button does not work is preventing me from using the 112 dialing-on-the-keypad trick.iTunes says to call the provider for activation but I don't want to because I live very far (40 miles) from the nearest AT&T location. Can anyone help me?

Thank you

Added (1). Compu questions - I wanted to update the 4S, didn't realize I was really updating he 3GS

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