How to reconnect with my husband?

I recently left a high stress job and am starting to feel great. I'm more active and more eager to try out new activities. My husband is still struggling with his high stress job. He is constantly attached to his iphone checking the scores and his many pools. We have a 2 year old and I have to tell him to put down his phone numerous times a day to see the new things she is doing. Don't get me wrong his is an amazing dad and does so much for her. Without his support I wouldn't be able to try all the new and exciting things I want to do. I guess my question is, how do I encourage him to become more engaged and invested in our relationship? I try to suggest doing things, ask him what he wants to do etc… But I think he is just happy sitting at home doing nothing. I'm really at a lose of what to do. I don't want to be a situation where we don't even know each other anymore.

When your child is asleep, walk into where your hubby is peering into his screen wearing nothing but a really huge strap-on and a jar of KY in your hand and a fake moustache under your nose.
Say in a strong German accent "Achtung! Ve haff to get bizzy nau!"

I can't say this with all certainty - but I believe you may have his undivided attention for as long as you desire.

Take him for a walk in the forest: there's no signal!

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Be direct with him. Tell him that the relationship isn't going the way you would like.Tel him you love him. Tell him what you need him to do. If he whines, tell him your relationship needs to grow for you to be happy. Suggest couples therapy. Dropping hints, mildly suggesting… These things don't work. Be direct. Be clear. Let him know what is at stake. If you aren't clear, he won't know.

Couples therapy for a check in may be a good idea anyway. They may have suggestions for bringing you closer.

Take walks during the evenings as a family. Go on weekend drives to the country and get ice cream. Get a membership to the zoo and go there a few times this summer.