How to set up a digital movie library?

I want to set up a digital movie library that will do several things:
1. Digitally store my DVDs and Blu-Rays.
2. Allow me to watch on any TV in my house without having to unplug or move anything around. (Constantly ready to play at the push of a button)
3. And if possible, allow for streaming from my iPhone of music or videos. (Like an Apple TV) The first two points are more important than this last one.

I do not want to store my movies in a cloud managed by someone else, (like the iCloud). I'm ok with storing my movies on a network that I control. For example, a wireless server of some type that has a few terabytes of storage on my own wireless network. Let me know of any ideas you have, or any websites and pages that already have instructions on how to do something like this.

If you use a backup software then you will be able to access all your files online with any computer
here the link

http://www.mypcbackup.com/

hope this helps!