How to synchronise music to my iPhone?

I want to synchronise music to my iPhone off my media player on my laptop, but it doesn't seam to find my device when I connect my mams phone it finds it straight away and synchronises the music, but not with mine! What's wrong? But I don't want to use iTunes!

Does your Mams have an iPhone? Or an android?

The iPod is designed to work with iTunes.
You can get it to work with other systems. I suggest you ask your Ma.

"I want to synchronise music to my iPhone off my media player on my laptop"

You don't. You use iTunes. The iPhone uses iTunes.

"I connect my mams phone it finds it straight away and synchronises the music"

That would have been a great moment to say what phone Mam is using.

"I don't want to use iTunes!"

Then getting an iPhone wasn't the smartest idea.