How to unlock a disable iphone with passcode?

My boyfriend thinks it's funny to repeatedly disable my iphone for long periods of time. Today, he took it too far and got it disabled to the point of needing to be connected to itunes. I have not previously synced my phone to itunes nor do I have anything backed up. I tried doing the whole itunes restore thing, but it says it needs me to unlock the phone with my passcode to continue, which obviously I can't do.

Sounds like you need a new boyfriend.

Go to the customer services centre and seek help from them, good luck to you.