I'm getting catfished. Now what?

About a year and a half ago I met someone online. Very cool guy talked for hours! I had just had my daughter and he was easy to talk to. After a while he started helping out with my daughter (Monetary help). He paid for day care, pampers, you name it he covered it. But he would never come see me. Pics seemed real but old. I knew he had an iPhone but in the pics he had a Evo. No pics were ever recent and we can never Skype or FaceTime. The pics always have NJ License plates but were from chicago. He has a million and 1 excuses why we can't see each other. We try to call it off when I get upset but we always get right back together. I can talk to him about anything, he makes me laugh all day, he cares about what's going on with me and my daughter, he helps out, and I love him. So what now? I'm obviously getting catfished but he won't fess up and I keep asking him to tell me but he won't… What do I do?

I know how hard this may be. Just go to him," I like you a lot ___ and you are a really great friend to have, but I just want to know that all of this is real. It's hard to believe all these pictures when you have an evo in them while I know you have an Iphone, or the new jersey license plate when you live in Chicago… Just skype me or something, anything so I know this is real, If you won't I will have to look that other way and end this before yourself or myself gets hurt."