I texted my crush he didn't respond?

I feel kind of lame now. I texted my crush that I liked him and he didn't respond back. Ik he saw it because he told me and showed me his iPhone before and he was on Facebook with his phone. I really liked this guy I liked him for two years. I was pretty sure he kind of liked me. He was also my guy friend. Do you think I'll have any chance for a reply or do you think he just going to push it aside? Do you think I might of ruined the friendship?

He probably doesn't know what to say. Guys are not really good at expressing how they feel.Us females would now how to react in this situation if a guy told us they had a crush on us. But yeah, he probably doesn't know what to say.

If he was as interested in you as you were in him, he would have responded.
More than that, he would have asked you out even before you texted.
Our behavior is the clearest indication of how we feel. And lack of action indicates lack of interest.

Sure, he would like you. But guys know within 5 minutes of meeting a girl if they want to pursue her. The fact that you have known him for 2 years and he has never once asked you out on a date tells you that even if he likes you as a person, he's not interested in dating you or getting involved in you.

Best thing if to push it out of your mind. Forget about it.
Don't mention it to him.
If you are wiling to keep quiet about it, and act normal, he can pretend nothing happened, and life will go on. You might keep the friendship. But now you have to back off a bit, or he will interpret friendship behaviors as trying to be pushy.
Be relaxed and natural, but don't seek him out as much. He will let you know, by initiating contact with you, how much of a friend he wishes to be.

And don't be too hard on yourself.
You took a chance, and taking a chance is sometimes the only way things happen.
As it turns out, nothing happened. But that's what was happening anyway.

And, yes, you liked him. But people are different on a date and in a relationship than they are when they are just a friend with you. It is entirely possible that you might have found out that your "best relationship" with him is as a friend, and being his girlfriend is NOT to your liking.
Every relationship has a level at which it functions best, and if you exceed that level, it floods with an awful mess to clean up later.
Perhaps YOUR best level with this guy is friendship. Would have been more useful to understand that BEFORE you pushed the matter, but what's done is done.
Guys don't wait 2 years to make a move… When they are interested they show it through action and there's no doubt or question. It's not the girl that draws them. It's her body and whether or not it's a body/face that turns them on. Superficial yes, but that means that they know right away if they want her. And YOU know right away too.

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