Is it weird that I never talk to girls and I'm 22?
I ask you, am I too young or something? Here's my scenario, I got a job, work out and stuff, and I go to a community college, but all my life I just never talk to girls. I just like to avoid them and just stay away from them. When I'm in a big group, I don't talk I just remain quiet hoping something random happens. Like someone asks me something, if someone would just say anything to me. Is that good or bad? I'm avoiding theme because I heard that they love it. "She'll find you" everybody says. I've never talked to a girl since middle school. I like being by myself. Why doesn't a girl just flock toward me already? Every year I like to just play hard to get hoping at least one girl talks to me. It happens in the movies. I don't even talk to girls at the gym. I prefer not to. Is that a good thing? At parties I just sit on my iPhone or something. I just don't talk to them. I'm just waiting hoping they talk to me or something. I was told to wait. I was commanded to wait. Someone told me the best things in life are worth waiting for. So am I being myself by never talking to girls? Am I? Everytime someone says "just be yourself" that pisses me off! Am I being myself? Is God real? Will he make a girl appear out of thin air?
Here's the problem with doing or hoping like you are: Girls like guys with personality. If you aren't interacting with them, sometimes to the point of avoiding interacting, it can be interpreted as you having an undesirable personality.
I'm not sure why you developed this trait of not interacting with girls, but I'd change that and interact with them. Most of them are pretty normal people. Most of the people I'm closest to happen to be females.
You are doing this totally wrong. I'm a girl by the way, so I guess we just broke your streak lol. Girls LIKE to be pursued. We don't go after guys. Even if we're attracted to them. We might throw a little bait (flirt) but it's up to you to reel us in. It's like in our genes to be pursued. Watch animal planet, it's ALWAYS the male pursuing the female. It's natural. I love being pursued. It's a confidence booster and it makes you feel all bubbly inside. I don't pursue men. Even if I'm attracted to them, I don't go pursue a relationship with them because I like an alpha male who goes and gets what he wants. Which is me… So yeah, you need to rewrite your game plan. Pursue these women!:3
That is terrible advice. Unless you want to stay single, you are going to have to man up and talk to some women. Take charge of your life and go after what you want because waiting for stuff to happen accomplishes nothing.
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