Is there a way to bypass or find my screen time passcode on iPhone?

So basically, I set myself a screen time passcode to avoid spending too much time on my phone. As a teenager with anxiety, I feel like my phone is negatively effecting me, so I set up Screen Time in hopes that I can't access it. Little did I know I accidentally restricted all internet access. I don't know the passcode, I set a random one and forgot it. I've tried everything, I contacted Apple to reset my iphone, yes, I've tried PinFinder, and nothing seems to be working. Really need some help here.

Oh, the things people do to try to fool themselves,
with the emphasis on FOOL.

If you can't control yourself any better than that, get some help.