ITunes problem with iPhone 5?

I just got my iPhone 5, and I installed iTunes 11.01.
But when I connect my iPhone via USB to my laptop; it just charges. Nothing happens with iTunes nor with my iPhone.

I restarted the iTunes and my iPhone too. But nothing happened:/

Is there another program like iTunes for the iPhone to download songs?

Added (1). @Strange
Where is this setting? On the iPhone or iTunes?

Added (2). @Boomer05 Where exactly is it in iTunes?

In the usb setting choose mass storage.

In iTunes on your laptop, the setting is there. Just make sure your device is discoverable in settings on iTunes.

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