Leave her after 2 years, or suck it up?

Ok, so me any my girlfriend are coming up on 2 years of a happy relationship. But recently I discovered that she has been lying to me. Ill start at the beginning. My girlfriend was a freshman in college and in one of her classes she met a guy. That is normal and not a big deal whatsoever. She would sometimes talk about the guy to me and things that they talked about I'm class. Then I saw that he started texting her, she said it was about homework and school stuff but sometimes her would text and ask her questions about her day but she swore she didn't want to and hasn't texted him back. Then one night he texted her and she told me to read what the text said not knowing it was from him so I saw that they have been talking for awhile about drinking together and such. So I obviously got upset, and I admit I lost some of my cool but needless to say she wanted a break because I didn't "trust" her. So then that only lasted a day and then we got back together and were fine. Until. We were in vacation and she asked me to search directions in her phone and I'm sure most of you with iPhones know that spotlight search is the easiest way to find an app so I started typing and old messages popped up from her friend. And I asked her if I could read them so i did. And mind you, when I found that they were texting the first time she admitted that she hung out with him
And his roommates by going to get food between classes. So I asked her if she PROMISED me that that was the ONLY time she spent out of school with him and she promised many many times. But I found out that she has gone to his house twice. First time was to study and the second time was to finish a movie they started. So when I saw this of course she couldn't lie about it but then I saw more. They were texting for a good few months every day and she would beg to go to his house and invited him to come visit her at the restaurant she works at to eat and even offered massage, which she said she didn't end up giving him

So far, offering a massage is the only thing that goes too far. Mostly you don't trust her and are trying to micromanage. If you can't trust her, you will make both your lives miserable trying to stay together.

That's not right she is hidding something I think that is going to far hanging out at his house and going on dates sounds like there getting seriouse if I were you I would tell her to either stop the relationship or its over.

Seems like she can't stop lying… Obviously she is encouraging him and not being honest with you. So she is giving you reasons not to trust her.

You have to decide if you are willing to live with someone that can't be truthful or trust worth.

I think you should give her one more chance, tell her how you feel about her talking this this guy.
Tell her you no longer want her talking to his guy, i believe deep down that she actually likes him. Enjoys his company exc.

Two years is a pretty long time, tell her to stop contacting this dude or you're out of the relationship

There's not other answer to this question, You need to break things off permanently with her, she has lied to you, and you will never be able to believe anything else she says. You will always doubt her, and be miserable.

You can't turn a hoe into a housewife